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When you finally do get your child or teen talking about their feelings, it is very important to understand that saying the wrong thing to your child can send them back into their silence very quickly. It is very important to choose your words carefully. When your child asks why life sucks, you need to avoid sarcastic comments like, “I agree! Your life sucks.” It is very easy for parents to grow weary with kids being dissatisfied with their lives when you know how hard you are working to make sure they have a good one. Going down through a list of all the ways their life is actually great will probably only irritate your child. The important thing to do at this point is to help your child or teen figure out why they feel that they suck at life.

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What To Do When Your Life Feels Meaningless

When young people are feeling sad or depressed, they do not want to hear how wrong they are to be sad. It is not wrong to be sad, regardless of how great of a life one has. The fact of the matter is that all people go through times of depression and sadness and it usually has very little to do with their everyday circumstances. There are millions of people suffering from depression everyday who have perfectly fine lives, plenty of money, a great family and, for all practical purposes, everything they need to be happy. However, sadness and depression can take over despite all of this. Feelings of inadequacy or hopelessness can build up on some very unlikely foundations. If you put your child on the defense, you may never learn what it is that is really bothering them and causing their sadness.

When ‘Life Sucks’, What Should Parents Do

Now i know you're going to give me the same advice as you did to everybody else.. which was to turn to God and give it all to him.. But you know what.. I don't know if there is a "certain" way to do all of this but i have already TRIED..MANY times giving my problems to God an it seems like he never helps, seems like he doesn't even care how I feel, and it seems like he doesn't care if I even think about suicide. And don't think that the devil just wants to destroy me but I agree with him too. Life sucks. Yes, even as a christian life has not gotten any better.

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